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35 Signs That Your Husband Still Loves You
- He's in-tune with you. He seems to always be on
the same wavelength as you. It's as if he's inside your mind, finishing
your thoughts and sentences. He remembers what you say, and he listens
to you with a smile on his face. A man who is in love with his wife
listens to her.
- He meets your needs. He takes care of your needs.
If a man truly loves you, he’ll always look for little ways to make your
life better, be it covering you with a blanket when you’re cold,
charging your cell phone even when you don’t ask him to, or serving the
better piece of chicken to you when you’re not looking.
- He gives you thoughtful gifts. When he is out with
his friends or traveling, and he spots something in a shop window that
he thinks you need, he picks it up for you because he’s thinking about
you always.
- You’re always a part of his big plan in life. The
things that matter to you matter to him. If he is planning to go on
vacation, he makes the plans with you. He speaks about his future and
his dreams with you, and you have a prominent place in them.
- He shows you off. How he behaves when you are out
in public says a lot about how he feels about you. If he walks with you
shoulder-to-shoulder and holds your hand instinctively when you’re in a
crowd, or places his hand on your back while crossing the street, then
he is committed and proud to be with you. He also likes showing you off.
- He confides in you. If he trusts you enough to
share his problems and insecurities and to seek your advice, it means
that your opinion matters a lot to him. He speaks his truth and wants
you to be there supporting him.
- He seeks your opinion. He doesn’t make any
important decisions about his own life without hearing your opinions and
having a discussion with you. You are his life partner, so any decision
must involve you too.
- He's affectionate. He treats you with spontaneous
displays of affection. He wraps his hands around you or stands closer to
you when you are among friends. He kisses you in public and is proud to
show you off to anyone; it’s a way of letting the world know that
you’re the one he loves.
- He gives you access. If he allows you to answer his
phone calls, it means there’s absolutely nothing he wants to keep
concealed from you. If your husband lets you grab his phone, he is not
hiding anything.
- He uses "we." If your husband is fond of using the
word “we” instead of saying “I” or “me” while talking and pays you
compliments when you least expect it, he loves you. To him, your
relationship is much more than just woman and man—you are husband and
wife and your life is one.
- He’s very protective of you. He definitely wants to
protect you and reassure you. If you’re taking a trip by yourself or
even if you’re just driving out with friends, does he like receiving
your call after you get to your destination? If your man can only relax
knowing that you’re safe, no matter where you are, he definitely has a
special spot for you in his heart.
- He’s very interested in your life. If your man
loves you, he’ll always be eager to know everything about you. He wants
to know what you think about and what makes you laugh. He asks questions
because he cares about your answers, and he remembers your answers,
too. He knows your favorite color and just how you like your coffee.
- He wants to see you happy. If you had a bad day or you’re upset about something, he wants to cheer you up because he genuinely wants you to be happy.
- He helps you out. He is always ready to offer a
helping hand every time you ask him even if he’s busy, without
unnecessary grumbling. He believes helping you out of any tight
situation is his responsibility.
- He can't stay mad. He can’t stay mad at you for any
reason for more than a couple of hours. People in love can’t stay mad
at each other for long; it hurts both lovers too much.
- He says "sorry." He swallows his pride and
apologizes first even if it’s not his fault in any way. If your husband
is generally forgiving and tolerant of your faults, that is a very good
sign that he still loves you.
- He communicates. He keeps you informed about his
life and what he’s up to even though he knows he has no obligation to do
so. He doesn't keep secrets from you.
- He's respectful. He treats you with a lot of respect. He doesn’t stare at other girls or women when you’re around.
- He listens. He respects your intellect and doesn't interrupt you in the middle of a conversation.
- He misses you. You are the one he wants to wake up
to each day. He finds that when he is not with you, you’re the last
person he speaks to or texts at night. He can’t stop thinking of you. He
is consumed with thoughts of you. When you call to find out how he is
faring, he keeps you on the phone, telling jokes. You're the last thing
on his mind every time he wakes up or goes to sleep.
- He compromises. Instead of insisting on his ways,
he doesn’t mind compromising. He sacrifices his happiness to see you
happy. This means he understands the spirit of give-and-take in
relationships and he is ready to ensure you are happy. It could be
something as small as choosing a restaurant that prepares your favorite
food when you’re eating out, or going to see a movie he didn’t really
want to just because you are interested in it, or missing a night out
with friends because he wants to be with you.
- He likes your family and friends. He makes an
effort to be liked by your friends and family. He treats you in a way
that you think would make your parents and your friends happy and he
cares about what your friends and family think of him.
- He talks a lot. If a man loves you, you’ll find
that he opens up really easily to you and talks a lot about
everything—be it his life, his work, or even about how annoying his
friends really are.
- He wants to spend time with you. If he loves
spending his spare time with you and his physical attraction to you is
undeniable, that is a very good sign that the wheel of love is still
very much working. It doesn’t matter to him what you two do, it is just
enough to be with you. No matter how busy he is, he doesn’t want to miss
a romantic night with you.
- You are a priority. He loves having conversations
with you. He goes out of his way to be with you. Whenever you are
around, every other thing takes a back seat because you are more
important. If he has to cancel a date for any reason, he’ll do
everything it takes to make it up to you on the next date.
- He stands up for you. A man who truly loves his
wife will stand by her side even if she’s in the wrong and criticize her
in private, but never in public.
- You're his number one. If he has to choose between
you and anything else in the world, you come up on top because he
doesn’t value anything or anybody more than you.
- He remembers your anniversaries. He never forgets
your special days, be it your birthday or anniversaries. He makes sure
he buys you a gift to mark the occasion.
- He never wants to hurt you. He doesn’t get annoyed with you even if he’s busy and you demand his attention.
- He thinks you're perfect. He falls in love with your flaws and thinks you’re perfect just the way you are.
- He only has eyes for you. At a social gathering,
although he can’t help but notice a beautiful woman, he will be so
attracted to you that many of them will slip by unnoticed. He never
gives any girl much attention because you are his universe even if he
meets a celebrity. The only woman that matters to him is you, and your
feelings mean a lot to him.
- He checks you out. You catch him gazing at you adoringly when he thinks you are not looking. When a man stares at you, his affection runs deep.
- His eyes do the talking. If he gazes in your eyes
with a sparkle in his, there is a good chance he really cares about you.
Men are guarded when it comes to showing emotion.
- He appreciates your gifts. If he wears clothes you
bought for him with pride, and cherishes gifts you give him, he loves
you. Consequentially, every time your husband does don some item you
bought for him, he’s showing that he is happy with you.
- He's intimate with you. If your husband has interest in physical intimacy with you, he loves you.
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